Saturday, July 21, 2007

Internet Filters: Part 2

The reason why I made this comment is that I'm helping start a group for men which helps support one's desire to stay away from pornography and deal with sexual addiction. We came
up with the idea of inputing around 200 sites in a filter allowing only those sites to be seen on any browser on the pc. If the user wanted additionaly sites added, they would have to contact me which I would do remotely.

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Internet Filters

I just read a very disturbing government document by two senators regarding file sharing software. I lost the document and will try and find it tommorrow. I stumbled upon it and my search has come up in vain. On the top file sharing sofware Rape was #13 off the top 20 search words. #2 and #3 were porn and xxx.
The document also said that all of the net filters on the market except for one block file sharing software. That filter is Mcafee's Internet Guard dog which now I believe is called Internet Security Suite. Although it looks like the latest edition really bogs down windows xp. I'm not sure if there is a MAC or Linux version.

Thursday, July 05, 2007

Hollywood

I was at work and had to listen to a woman keep commenting on different photos of Hollywood actresses. Negative comments about these actresses bodies. When she would speak about these women, a new emotion was born in me. It was a mixture of pain and hurt from that woman, and disgust and anger that she was judging these women by their appearance.

I realized that this woman has probably gone through a lot of pain and hurt from this world judging her only on looks. Maybe many terrible men have used and abused her for sex and money, with absolutely no intentions of keeping any kind of relationship once they get tired of getting what they want. Maybe her girlfriends dumped her for in their opinion a better looking friend.

The dark side of her comments is that what the world has protruded on this woman has now come full circle and the very thing that she hates, she is now throwing at these magazines and possibly other people at work, home, or even friends.

"But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart." 1 Samuel 16:19.

Just imagine if the world judged on character instead of appearance.............

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Suffering

On June 3rd my daughter Jorai Mae passed away stillborn at 6 months. I just haven't found the words to fully express my sorrow over this tragedy. This morning I am scouring the net for information to help me better understand why Jorai didn't get a chance to live in this world.

"The universe is a soul making machine, and part of that process is learning, maturing, and growing through difficult and challenging and painful experiences. The point of our lives in this world isn't comfort, but training and preparation for eternity." - Lee Strobel

The universe is a soul making machine and Jorai just didn't have to go through the difficult, challenging, and painful experiences of life. I'd rather have GOD raise her up anyway :-). He will do a much better job than I.

Below is a sermon on why suffering has to be a part of life, it's long, but it gives me some understanding. I don't like it, but it makes sense. I still don't like it, but then if I were GOD and created the gears of the world, my system would of been based on pleasure not pain. From what I have seen and experienced in my lifetime, I have absolutely no faith in pleasure accomplishing anything worthwhile.

                  "THE PROBLEM OF SUFFERING"

Why Does God Allow It?


INTRODUCTION

1. There is a question which is as old as the first tear, and as recent
as the lastest newscast:

"Why? Why does God allow suffering, sorrow, heartache, and death,
even among His own children?"


This question was asked by Job, and has been asked by every person
who has walked upon the face of the earth and who believes in God

I. SUFFERING KEEPS THIS WORLD FROM BECOMING TOO ATTRACTIVE

A. THE BIBLE TELLS US THAT WE ARE "PILGRIMS" AND "SOJOURNERS"...
1. This world is not truly our home
2. God has prepared something better for us
3. Consider the following passages: 1 Pe 2:11; He 13:14; 2 Co
5:1,5


B. IF THERE WAS NO SUFFERING...
1. No one would want to leave this temporary world
2. No one would desire the "eternal" home, and therefore prepare
themselves for it

C. BUT THE AFFAIRS OF THIS LIFE ARE SO ORDERED...
1. That the world soon loses its attraction
2. Most young people may want to live forever...
a. But by the time a man reaches his "three score and ten"
b. He begins to desire something better

II. SUFFERING CAN BRING OUT OUR BEST

A. THE MAN WHOSE WIFE WAS SERIOUSLY INJURED SAW THIS...
1. In the constant support by friends
2. In the preparation of food
3. In the financial support

B. WE SEE THIS OCCURING QUITE FREQUENTLY...
1. In times of natural disaster
2. When someone loses a house to fire, tornado, etc.
3. In times of terminal illness

C. THIS MAY BE ONE REASON WHY EARLY CHRISTIANS REJOICED IN THEIR
TRIALS...

1. They understood that tribulations could develop character
2. As Paul wrote in Ro 5:3-4

III. SUFFERING GIVES AN OCCASION TO SILENCE THE ENEMIES OF GOD

A. REMEMBER THE STORY OF JOB?
1. Satan wanted to prove God wrong about Job, that he served God
only because God had blessed him
2. But Job's patience under suffering silenced Satan!

B. LIKEWISE, GOD DESIRES THAT WE SILENCE "FOOLISH MEN" - 1 Pe 2:15
1. Who ridicule the teachings of Christ as foolishness
2. Who say we are Christians only for what good we can get out of
it

C. BY PATIENTLY ENDURING, OR DOING GOOD IN TIMES OF SUFFERING...
1. The value of being Christians really shines through
2. In the faith we have that sustains us in suffering, and in the
love we show towards those who suffer

IV. SUFFERING MAKES US APPRECIATIVE

A. WE ALL RECEIVE SO MANY GOOD THINGS IN THIS LIFE...
1. It is easy for us to become prone to take them for granted
2. Instead of receiving them with gratitude toward God

B. SUFFERING CAN HELP US APPRECIATE MORE FULLY...
1. Good health
2. Good friends, and a loving family
3. A good example of how suffering can make one appreciative is the
apostle Paul when he was in prison - cf. Ph 1:3-8

V. SUFFERING MAKES US MORE DEPENDENT UPON GOD

A. TOO OFTEN, WE THINK OURSELVES SELF-SUFFICIENT...
1. "But when a dozen of the most skilled men in their profession
tell you they have done all they can and it is completely out
of their hands..."
2. "...you suddenly realize how much you depend on God."

B. AT NO OTHER TIME...
1. Is one more likely to realize that we depend upon God for our
very breath!
2. As Paul proclaimed: "in Him we live and move and have our
being" - Ac 17:28

VI. SUFFERING HELPS PURIFY US

A. CONSIDER THE IMPORT OF TWO PASSAGES...
1. 1 Pe 1:6-7 - Suffering can be like fire purifying gold
2. Ja 1:2-5 - Maturity can be developed through trials

B. TO ILLUSTRATE HOW, CONSIDER THE MAN WHOSE WIFE WAS INJURED...
1. "Many times I searched my own life during these past six weeks
in order to confess my every failure and shortcoming to God..."
2. "I surely did not want my own sins to stand in the way of God
hearing my prayers for Jane..."
3. "It was absolutely necessary to be truthful with God and myself,
and I am a better man today than before."

VII. SUFFERING MAKES US SYMPATHETIC

A. PAUL WROTE OF THIS VALUE OF AFFLICTION...
1. To the church at Corinth, in his second epistle - 2 Co 1:3-4
2. It helps us to be better able to comfort others in their
affliction

B. WE MAY THINK WE CAN SYMPATHIZE WITH SOMEONE...
1. But until we have been there personally, there is no true
understanding of their hurt
2. Experiencing suffering...
a. Makes us more likely to "weep with those who weep" - Ro
12:15

b. Better enables us to serve others

VIII. SUFFERING TEACHES US HOW TO PRAY

A. WE ALL MAY BE A PRAYING PEOPLE...
1. We pray at the right times
2. We pray for the right things

B. BUT IN THE MIDST OF SUFFERING WE LEARN HOW TO PRAY...
1. "Earnestly"
2. "Perseveringly"
3. "With groanings which cannot be uttered" (Ro 8:26)

C. AS OUR FRIEND SAID:
1. "I have been a praying man since I became a Christian. But
never like this."
2. "I have learned more about prayer in the past six weeks than
in the previous twenty years. My prayers will be different
for the rest of my life."

CONCLUSION

1. Can we begin to see why a RIGHTEOUS and MERCIFUL God would allow
suffering, even to the innocent?

2. If we look at suffering purely from MAN'S point of view, we will not
understand why suffering is permitted

3. But remember what God said through the prophet Isaiah:

8 For my thoughts [are] not your thoughts, neither [are] your ways
my ways, saith the LORD. 9 For [as] the heavens are higher than the
earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than
your thoughts. (Isaiah 55)


4. When we look at suffering from GOD'S point of view, from the viewpoint
of His plans for us in preparation of eternity, then we can begin to
appreciate why He would allow suffering to occur...

5. And never forget those words of Paul, which reminds us of God's never
failing love:

35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? [shall]
tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness,
or peril, or sword? 36 As it is written, For thy sake we are killed
all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. 37
Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him
that loved us. 38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life,
nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor
things to come, 39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature,
shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in
Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8)